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You Can
Have Peace:
Raising
a Child with a Psychological Disorder

USA Book News Award Winner for Best Books 2006
A Cry for Light: A Journey into Love,
by Janet Alston Jackson, is the inspirational story of a parent’s
struggle to find peace in a household ripped apart by her
psychologically disturbed son. This powerful memoir reminds us that
you can find peace amid any problem-- for Jackson; it was the
ancient practice of Mindfulness that brought her salvation.
A page-turning narrative about a Hollywood publicist seeking help
for her emotionally-disturbed son, Jackson recounts her struggle to
adopt and raise Devon, a three-year-old trapped in the Los Angeles
Department of Children and Family Services. Her unforeseen troubles
begin when the child is placed in Jackson’s home. The joy of saving
a child turns into a desperate attempt to save a collapsing family
as Jackson desperately seeks a way to combat Devon’s anti-social and
violent condition—Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD). A search that
lasted over 11 years, it was only after Jackson turned to the love
teachings of Mindfulness that the healing of mother and son could
begin.
“When we are crying in the middle of the night
through agony and frustration over our RAD child-- and when we have
lost hope, we can find inner peace to restore us and help us to tap
into our own wisdom for direction,
says Jackson. For me it was through the non-religious practice
of Mindfulness-- learning to live in the present moment. Thinking
about the future for my son was scary, and I was angry and
frustrated over things my son did in the past. Mindfulness helped
me to focus on the moment to find the right help for him and we
did. Today, he is healed and serving in the Marine Corps.
Mindfulness is where I found peace, a divine love, forgiveness, and
God. We don’t have to suffer.”
What
They Are Saying About A Cry for Light
USA Book News calls “A Cry for Light” “An
amazing book filled with love, power and mindfulness of how each and
every one of us can make a difference in this world!”
Gregory C. Keck, Ph.D. , co-author of “Parenting the
Hurt Child” and founder of the Attachment and Bonding Center in
Ohio, says, “Janet drew me into the journey
of reading this insightful and hopeful book. I found that at times
I wanted to read faster so that I could get to the next chapter. I
think that “A Cry for Light” will help prepare families who choose
to embark on helping children.”
Stacy Miller, a mother of three and Vice President of
Child Resources Center says, “This book
reads like a good novel. It touched my heart in so many ways!”
Barb Holtan, MA, MSW Executive Director, Adoption
Exchange Association Project Director, Collaboration to Adopt US
Kids, says “A Cry for Light” is so
important for all of us who have lived through similar challenges
being the parents of children who have been hurt and damaged, and
for all of us who work in “the system.” This is not just another
adoption book!”
You Can
Find Inner Peace
Readers will discover the ancient practice of mindfulness through “A
Cry for Light.” A non-religious practice used today in pain clinics
and cancer hospitals, this technique can enhance any religious
practice and give peace to those without religious affiliation.
Janet finds Mindfulness through studying the works of Thich Nhat
Hahn, an International Peace Activist and Zen Master, who Rev.
Martin Luther King nominated for the Nobel Peace Prize.
Here’s what Thich Nhat Hanh said about “A Cry for
Light:” “This is a beautiful book about the
profound transformation that is possible when we ground our lives in
mindfulness, the awareness of what is happening in the present
moment. The author is truly skilled in the practice of recognizing
and embracing her thoughts and feelings, even in the midst of
extremely painful and frustrating situations. She shows us how to
love and also how to let go.”
What is
Mindfulness?
Mindfulness or being mindful, is being aware of your present moment.
You are not judging, reflecting, or thinking. You are simply
observing the moment in which you find yourself. When this happens,
stress is released and you will find increased insight and clarity.
Mindfulness is used in clinics across the country. The majority of
participants who complete these programs report these benefits:
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Decreased physical and psychological
symptoms
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Increased ability to cope with
stressful situations
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Improved self-esteem
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Greater enthusiasm for life
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Greater energy
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Improved pain levels or coping with
chronic pain
Mindfulness
programs can help complement care of the following:
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Anxiety and panic disorders
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Headaches/chronic pain
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Sleep disturbance
- Job
and family stress
- Type
A behavior
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Heart disease
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Cancer/AIDS
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Fatigue/depression
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Arthritis
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Gastrointestinal disorders
Janet Alston Jackson is a behavioral consultant and certified anger
management consultant who has studied under three Zen Masters. She
has been a guest on radio shows across the country. Janet co-owns
Self Awareness Trainings, a motivational training company, with her
husband Walter H. Jackson, (author of “Sporting the Right
Attitude.”) Together they coach a variety of audiences on effective
communications and Mindfulness. Past trainees include: parents,
teachers, social workers, women in recovery, and law enforcement
officers. She does all of this while being a mother of three.
“A Cry for Light” is Available on Amazon
Purchase the book from Amazon
Return to author’s website
http://www.JanetAJackson.com
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